I am constantly amazed at people who think they are making the world a better place by whinging.
Don't get me wrong, I fancy a whinge as much as the next person, the weather, the traffic, the baggages retrieval system they've got at Heathrow... but whinging is no longer a guilty pleasure indulged in with moderation Nup, it's something to be proud of. We draw attention to problems and say the government should fix it, we'll write a letter or call up talk back radio instead of actually doing anything constructive. So if it's good enough for them I'm going to whinge about people whinging!
This epidemic of complaining was highlighted recently by a couple of young friends of mine. I was told that they were educating their 3 year old daughter in social action. That's nice I thought, expecting that they were encouraging here to share her toys or to be kind to those who are different from herself. No, on a recent visit to the park, Sophie had remarked that the slippery slide was dirty, so they went home and........wrote a letter to the council to ask them to clean the slide.
For heaven's sake, talk about teaching a child to expect a nannystate. Wouldn't it have been a better lesson to the kid if they'd gone home and come back with a bucket of water and a rag and cleaned the slide themselves? There are situations where writing letters and protesting are positive and effective ways of trying to change the system, particularly at a national and global level but it's certainly not the only, nor the most effective way of making a difference in our local communities.
Has advocating for change become a way of whimping out from actually being a change agent? Sadly amongst many of the so called socially aware I think so.
Don't get me wrong, I fancy a whinge as much as the next person, the weather, the traffic, the baggages retrieval system they've got at Heathrow... but whinging is no longer a guilty pleasure indulged in with moderation Nup, it's something to be proud of. We draw attention to problems and say the government should fix it, we'll write a letter or call up talk back radio instead of actually doing anything constructive. So if it's good enough for them I'm going to whinge about people whinging!
This epidemic of complaining was highlighted recently by a couple of young friends of mine. I was told that they were educating their 3 year old daughter in social action. That's nice I thought, expecting that they were encouraging here to share her toys or to be kind to those who are different from herself. No, on a recent visit to the park, Sophie had remarked that the slippery slide was dirty, so they went home and........wrote a letter to the council to ask them to clean the slide.
For heaven's sake, talk about teaching a child to expect a nannystate. Wouldn't it have been a better lesson to the kid if they'd gone home and come back with a bucket of water and a rag and cleaned the slide themselves? There are situations where writing letters and protesting are positive and effective ways of trying to change the system, particularly at a national and global level but it's certainly not the only, nor the most effective way of making a difference in our local communities.
Has advocating for change become a way of whimping out from actually being a change agent? Sadly amongst many of the so called socially aware I think so.